Happy Birthday Sweet Kelsey!  / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )

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birthdat dream  / Gramma Judi (gramma)
hi kels, wanted to thank u for the awesome dream. it is so wonderful that we were out shopping & you saw that jeans outfit you liked. when i told you to try it on and if it fit i'd get it for you for your birthday you were so excited. it so awesome because your birthday is just 2 days away. i know you had something to do with my dream. do you know that then gramma came and saw me too kelsey. it was like she was letting me know she was right there with you and that made my heart happy. i will be singing to you wednesday kels and crying too because i still want you here with us. i think of you all the time. your sisters are beautiful and you would be very proud of them katey made an awesome pillow. maybe she'l be like gramma, just sewing up a storm. karly is as talented as ever but has'nt written anything new lately. again luv thank you for the dream. it made my heart happy. i love you kelsey for always and forever. xxooxxoo                                        gramma Close

Just Passing By...  / Chelsey Stockdale (Visitor)

Hi..

My name is Chelsey. I realize you dont know me and I didn't know Kelsey but I was passing by going to my bestfriends memory-of page and I happen to see Kelseys. I was touched and saddened when I read what had happened to your gorgeous daughter. I am so ever sorry for your loss. Its a tough thing to deal with. In the past year I've lost two friends that just happened to be cousins. One of my bestfriends that I just happen to grow up with passed away last year on June 23rd after a cyst on her brain burst. She slipped into a coma and never regained consiousness. She was in the hospital for a week aand during that hole time I had so much faith she was going to be okay especially when she was improving daily and responding to everything she was asked to do. When she passed I felt like I lost a part of me. I know it was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with and accept. I still have not fully accepted the fact that died. This year she would have been a senior with all of us and it still hurts that she didnt get to do all the things we did. The next friend I lost happened to be her cousin. She was 21 and passed on April 8th, 2008 after a elderly woman ran a red light and smashed into her car causing it to flip and throwing my friend from the car. She died on the scene. I was completely in shock when I heard the news. Her boyfriend, who I happened to grow up with was in school with me at the time and seeing him after he got the news was another one of the hardest things I've ever seen and had to deal with. I can't seem to understand as to why God has to take away the lives of such young, amazing people.

Once again, I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I know there are no words I can really say to make you feel any better. They say time heals all wounds but I found that to be not so true. Just know your beautiful daughter is now your gaurdian angel and will always be with you or near you. I'm sure she is looking down on you and smiling.

As for Emma, Kelseys bestfriend. Hold in there, things will ease up a little, promise. I know its tough losing a bestfriend and I wish it was something no one had to go through. Just know that she'll always be with you also. She's always going to be watching over you. Keep the memories close to you that you two shared and just keep her memory alive.

If you would like to email me, feel free @  cstockdale18@yahoo.com

the two memory websites in case your wondering are:

www.paige-desarro.memory-of.com

www.amanda-desarro.memory-of.com

Sincerely,

Chelsey

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July 4th  / Mom
Hey,Kels-went to see fireworks last night in our usual spot. We thought about you all day and how this holiday was one of your favorites. You would always be screaming out what the fireworks in the sky looked like to you really loud-so funny!! We all miss that and so much more-we know that you are with us-we felt your presence last night. We saw some that looked like shooting stars and one that looked like a heart. They were pretty cool. Anyway,just wanted to tell you my heart lights up when I think of you and that I miss you and love you for always and forever. Love,Mom Close

Thinking of you  / Jodie Kleinowski (friend of Patty and Michelle )

I know that I never got to meet you Kelsey, but I sure do feel like I knew who you were. Your mom and Aunt Michelle always talked so highly of you, and they all adored you. You can see by all the posts that have been made on this site and all the candles that have been lit that you were a big part of a lot of lives. I hope that you visit them all often. All of your family and friends. I know that there is a place where life is eternial and you never get sad there, or have bad things happen. I know that you are there Kelsey, looking down on your family and friends and trying to make them see the little things that make living so great. I know that you send them butterflies, so I hope that they have all been seeing PLENTY of them. I never really cared much about butterflies until your death, and now, even though I didn't know you personally, I have butterflies all around. You were a blessing to your parents, and you will always be their baby. Keep an eye on them all. They need all the love they can get. I'm sure that even though they have your sisters, they still feel lonely inside where there is a huge hole in their souls, hearts and minds.

Patty and Michelle,

I sure do miss seeing both of you every day. I wish we lived closer so that we could see each other more often. You will both be in my heart and on my mind for a very long time, if not for my lifetime. You are both such great people who didn't deserve to have your sweet Kels taken away from you the way she was. I love and miss you both!!!

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kels / Emma Faria (best friend. )
kelsey.... its taken this long to get back on here.

i know you understand what has been going on. i recently
released butterflies at the cemetery. some of them flew straight
up into the sky. maybe they were flying to you. i wish i could
go with them. i took two days off work...and even though i was
going to try and make those days be filled with all our wonderful
memories and try and think positive i couldnt be happy. i hope im
not being selfish. it just hurts so bad. i also recently moved. i hope
you like the tributes to you in my room. i love looking and talking to
you everyday. you know i love you. i have so much i want to say on
here but i dont know how to say it. today as i was getting woken up
in my dream i got a call on my cell. when i looked at my phone it said
kelsey. i immediately answered. as you were trying to tell me something
i woke up. ive been thinking about it all day. i feel like you were telling
me something very very important.my mind wont let me think of anything
else. something i need to know.
life right now is not too good. these last two weeks have been harder than
usual. i love talking to people about you. people that never knew you love
listening to me talk about all our jokes and our times together. sometimes
i feel like i should shut up but its all i have to hold on to. on friday i was
thinking to myself about how i would give up ANYTHING to have you
back. i was thinking that even when i dont want to be around anyone i want
to be around you. thats what i miss the most about us. no matter what we were
doing or where we were or how good or bad things were going in our lives when we
were together everything was P.E.R.F.E.C.T. everything made sense. but now when
things are bad i dont have that anymore. i dont have that one thing that made everything else okay. i dont have you. bottom line. people think because i get up to go to work and i slap and stupid smile on my face that im okay. they think that because i dont get on to your site that ive forgot. you see me every second. the last thing i
am is OKAY. the last thing i would ever do is forget you. i struggle to keep my
head above water. but no matter how hard it gets im going to keep going because i know thats what you want. and as long as you know that im content.
you are still and always will be my best friend. my goose. my whole entire world.
i miss you every day. i cry. i hurt. pain does NOT go away with time.
i cannot believe its been two years. it feels like seriously a week ago we were meeting
half way or going tanning with your mom. or just laying around your house. remember when i first moved on to hunter and you changed your hair and we tricked my mom.i remember our last summer together very well. i know your always here with me but no matter how much people tell me that its not the same. i want to watch movies with you. i want to paint eachothers fingers and toes and ride bikes listening to our walk man c.d. players. i want to talk on the phone for hours and hours about nothing. life has lost so much meaning without you.
i love you kelsey....i love you so much.
please visit me again. i need to see you. ill be
waiting in my dreams.

i miss you beautiful.
love- your scuber. forever your best. Close

To my Beautiful niece Kelsey  / Michelle Scanlon (Aunt)
Kels, I can't believe it has been 2 years since you have been gone, just like your mom says, it seems like just yesterday.  I think about you every day.  When I see girls your age it makes me wonder - what would Kels be doing today?  I can't help but envy them and sometimes I want to approach them and just tell them to live each day to the fullest.  The butterflies have started to appear, which warms my heart because that is my connection to you and heaven.  We will all be getting together on Sunday to celebrate your life and I know that you will be there to help us get through this day.  I want to especially ask that you pray for your mom, dad and sisters, as they continue to struggle through their everyday lives without their precious Kels.  I love you and miss you so very much.  Hugs and kisses for always and forever, Love Aunt Michelle!!! Close

Hey / Karly Price (sis)
Hey kelsey everyone misses u so much. we cant believe it has been 2 years already. hope to feel your presence everywhere i go and i do. i miss u so much and on the last day yesterday may 22nd i got to move up to the steps for 6th grade. i know u will always be here to help me through all the years to come. Close

missing you much  / Patty Price (mom)

My beautiful Kels I still can't believe it has been two years-it feels just like yesterday still. I wasn't done being your Mom-I wasn't done loving you. I still remember the day you were born and how excited your Dad and I were to be your parents. You made us so proud Kelsey. I think about you every day and remember how happy you made me-always and forever. You still have my heart and always will. I will go visit your gravesite today and read to you from my journal. I like writing to you and about you. It helps me with my grieving. We will get together with the whole family to honor your memories with us over this long weekend. Be with me,your Dad and your sisters to help us get through this day. I love you and miss you. Love forever and always,Mom-Kelsey's Mom!!!!

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To Kelsey's Family  / Kim Couch (freind of Jennifer Scanlon )
Just wanted to say that I am thinking of you guys today and sending my prayers always. Love, Kim Close

That day  / Nancie Page (friend of Patti and Michelle )
I'll never forget that horrible day when we heard what happened to Kelsey and I know you have lived that day ever since. I wish you peace and know I always think of you Close

That day  / Nancie Page (friend of Patti and Michelle )
I'll never forget that horrible day when we heard what happened to Kelsey and I know you have lived that day ever since. I wish you peace and know I will never always think of you. Close

5ORRY / ADY BENiTEZ (FRi3ND)

H3Y K3L53Y iM 5ORRY i HADNT BEEN ABLE TO WRiTE YOUH, BUT i HADNT HAD TH3 CHANCE TO...i JU5T WANTED TO LET YOUH KNOW THAT YOUH HAVENT BEEN FORGOTTEN AND NEVER COULD BE... YOU WiLL ALWAYZ HAVE A SPECiAL PLACE iN EVERYBODYS HEART, BECAUSE i KNOW THAT iN MiNE YOUH DiD...JU5T KNOW THAT NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS AND WHERE LiFE TAKES ALL OF US THAT KNEW YOUHL...YOUH WiLL ALWAYZ BE A PART OF OUR LiVES...i LOVE YOUH...Mi55 YOUH...AND WiLL KEEP REMEMBERiNG YOUH!!!

*^ADY^*

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coping / Dad

I have not posted here for quite some time.
I'm reluctant to even stop in and read.

 That does not mean my life is better, because it never will be.
 I strive to make those who survive "Kels", happy and proud. 
Her sisters and mother should not feel left out.

Life calls, whether you want it to or not.
Thank you to all, who have Kelsey in their thoughts.

It means the world to us.


  

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Thinking of You  / Nancie Page (co-worker of patty and michelle )
I hope you know I think of you and your family every day, I allways will. Close

Happy Easter.  / Carole Mom To Angel Heather Bates (connected by angels )
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Valentine / Carole Mom To Angel Heather Bates (connected by angels )
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birthdays passing  / Mom
Dear Kels, another birthday has passed-Karly's 11th! Me and your Dad still have difficulty with the fact you cannot be here in person to celebrate with us and your sisters. Karly and Katey both miss you so much but somehow they are pushing through life just fine which is what we all want. They are both getting great grades-Karly still getting straight A's and Katey has made honor roll throughout her entire 7th grade year. I'm sure you are so proud of them and smiling down on them just as your Dad and I are.  Gosh,Kels i still don't think life is very fair taking you at such a young age-when you had your whole life right there-I know you are there with us celebrating the parties and the anniversaries and the sad and happy moments of our everyday lives. Each day that passes is one more day closer to being with you again and for that day I'm not scared. You will be in my heart forever and always just as you have been from the very beginning. We miss you, we love you and thank you-for being you-for blessing our lives for all of your 14 young years. Keep laying by my feet at night-I wouldn't have it any other way. Love,Mom Close

love / Carole Mom To Angel Heather Bates (connected by angels )
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random thoghts  / Dad
Our lives have changed, changes we'd never request.
We are only left to make the best. 
To us, the best does not appeal.
We still long for your touch, hoping it seems real
Be assured, we carry you at all times, on our minds and on our backs.
We go through our days trying to pass happiness to where it lacks.
Thinking to ourselves do they know where we've been?
It is most certainly a selfish thought and for that we're not proud.
We miss our baby, our sister our "Kels" 
If only it was acceptable to scream it out loud.
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